Hey, see that big fat woman walking down the streets. I wonder what might be her weight. It seems like she won’t even get married. Even if she gets married her husband will suffer a lot. So this was a kind of conversation we all do when, we feel odd about a person through the physical appearance. When we that skinny guy how do we feel?
We think about his marriage, his body and so many future thoughts that we create an impression such that he won’t ever be able to live happy life. It is not only about females but it is happening with many people around who are either body shamed or who are under the process of becoming normal. So during that process too our ideology is set in that manner and we continuously make fun of them.
But such people only waste their time in laughing and never mind their own business. They peep in other’s personal life and pass some rude comments through gossips and social media. A part from body shaming some people also make fun of handicaps. Though we have certain sense and knowledge about the way they suffer through it, but for a matter of laughter we don’t even leave them.
This theoretical knowledge only remains in those books and mind. We know it but we never ever make use of it. And that is what we call as stupidity. It’s similar to having a ton of money, but not having a proper knowledge to use it. Some people use it as their daily expenses and also to fulfil their desires.
Education in the current generation has been sold out because our minds are becoming corrupted due to its unwanted use. We are seeing perfection through social media. The amount of photos which are uploaded on the social media platforms are more than what we can imagine.
And after that we just feel amazed by the brilliancy of the photographer and the photograph. It gives a pleasant feeling. When we see those top models, we match them with the people around. We think that they don’t even match like them.
But the social media has other part also i.e. photos can be edited at such a level that we don’t need to worry about it. Even “UGLY” entitled men and women can look beautiful and that is how we are forming up an undeniable world of illusion. An illusion that is never real. Those top models, when you will remove those filters and see them in the natural way, then they will also look equal to people around you.
So it’s that make up, cosmetics and several edits on social media which makes them beautiful. When you observe them in their natural face then you will be shocked with the kind of illusion or imagination you had created about that same person. In reality everyone looks beautiful because no one is actually perfect since we have some or other flaws.
UGLY WITH APPEARANCE HAVE KIND HEARTS
Its sounds pretty confusing. Right? But this is actually one of the bitter truth that we are facing in the reality. The way we are editing our pictures, the way we are creating our appearance, while being in front of the audience is going to affect a lot.
And that is what happening with people who see themselves as a person with darker skin tone or ugly face. Actually those kind of people have kind hearts since they are negatively affected by the negative comments of other people.
We all know that there are people who still discriminate through colour and when they meet such fair skin individuals, then it affects that person and also disturbs the mind. Those fair skin people get to know how others are, and then they rise through those struggles.
Then take an example of a person with white skin tone and glowing skin. It will make difference in comments. Right? The white skin tone individual will get more good and appreciative comments than the darker or fairer one.
Then there is this saying that when we love someone too much, they get spoiled. And that is what happens with people who are fed with ego. So when there are so many appreciative comments then that same person sees himself/herself at a very higher position and feels at the top of the world. And the darker skin colour stays as low as possible, struggling to make the journey step by step.
A fairer person feels sensitive because he/she might be treated in that manner and therefore it doesn’t build that kind of ego while the brighter skin colour will feel on top. So this point is very relatable with those people who feel themselves as nothing.
It is because they have kind hearts and give equal importance to everyone in their life. Even if you think about healthy food some of them are bitter and not that much tasty but they are actually healthy. Just like potato chips will look tasty to everyone but not an avocado or a cooked vegetable.
Similarly we as a human work over external importance of a person and forget the true beauty which is lying inside. We forget about that kind heart, peaceful soul and a gentle attitude. Instead we will look the bright skin colour, the body, muscles, breast size, butt size and it just never ever stops.
Even if we are educated but still we will be nothing because we are doing the same thing. I explained it deeply so that it can be rooted in your mind, the way we try to differentiate people according to appearance.
DON’T WORRY ABOUT THOSE TOXIC MINDS
This tragedy just never ends because people will never stop passing commenting and doing weird things around in order to hurt others. But what we need to understand is that at every point, we all are developing and growing. During this process, we don’t understand or you can also say that the mind is not developed as it should be. And that is why there is so much increase of toxic thoughts, since people are lying down illiterate, they don’t have work to do.
It’s quite an understandable situation because when we are struggling, our thoughts might change. We might get violent and that is what happening to people around. So there is no perfect human being and we the living beings can never stop trolling or body shaming others. And it’ absolutely acceptable. And if you are reading this, then it is not only happening with you but a lot of people around. We shouldn’t mourn over such things because we cannot change everyone’s mindset.
There are few people who know this challenges and also respect them because of their sensible thinking. So surround yourself with such people who support you. If you don’t try to love yourself, then you won’t be able to love what you do. So don’t worry about people because they will be settling with the same result.
Instead work over yourself because you need to move forward and join a healthy community and supporters. Don’t mind saying thank you to these toxic people because at the same time they are also helping you in some or other way. At last sensible and educated people will never ever judge a book by its cover. Remember.
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