The term called “Privacy” has changed in these recent years. Two decades ago people used to at least keep their private parts covered through their specially designed clothes while doing a photoshoot. Nowadays people run naked to their studios and both the palm are enough to cover the entire privacy. Isn’t it? I hope people don’t start running naked on streets no matter at what rate technology gets developed.
We are changing trends according to the way everyone is getting adapted. In 90’s, people used to wear formal clothes no matter at which occasion they are. It can be a party or even acting in movies. Though Bikni was a trend adapted in that time, but still people tried to avoid it. This was because in order to protect physical privacy.
There were many myths regarding such undergarments and some of them might have felt ashamed. This did not affected the growth of fashion because as the technology got developed we switched our minds. Once a person gets adapted to a specific fashion then people around too get influenced by it. And this has given rise to so called “influencers” who make abundance of money.
Whatever might be the sector, there is development and scope in the future. At present you might feel it as unworthy but when demand starts forming peaks, then there is no way to pull it down back again. The term privacy is slowly vanishing because we are trying to open ourselves not mentally but physically. The contribution of physical satisfaction is absolutely zero towards mental and emotional peace.
One might try to seek a lot of physical bonds but at the same time it will be difficult for him or her to maintain mental stability. The way we are trying to open ourselves is influencing our physical capabilities. For example on social media handle, you will find a lot of content revolving around gym, muscles, growing booty and this has given rise to those content creators.
Audience is consuming the content and in fact they are sharing the same with others. And in turn they are trying to do the same. It is important to focus on fitness but the way we are sharing awareness has changed its course. This happens especially with men who go through their social sites and while scrolling they get tied up when women show off exercises about growing glutes.
It’s common now and we can’t complain because everyone has adapted to that kind of environment. But when it comes to personal privacy we need to keep in mind that mental and emotional privacy is of utmost importance. Since everyone can see our external appearance, there is no way to hide it. But can anyone see your mind? Can anyone see your emotions or even thoughts?
Of course not and that is why it is important to secure them as these elements contribute mainly towards our overall health. When it comes to relationship, we have to maintain boundaries internally as well as externally from the toxic culture of people. When someone tries to watch over our physical appearance, we can’t question those people. It might be because we look handsome, beautiful, hot, stunning.
There can be anything churning on their mind and we don’t have right to stop them from thinking. So can you think about those people who are always jealous about a relationship where couples are happy? People get jealous because they feel that they are not happy with their own life and when they see others happy, they become toxic. They try to break our boundaries and can destruct the entire relationship through their toxic thoughts.
RELATIONSHIPS WHICH GET ATTENTION ARE MOST AFFECTED
We all love to grow, no matter that can be the case of a relationship, love, work or any profession. When we are passionate about something or someone we need to also take care of their respect. Superstars who get lot of attention from media, fame from people are always internally affected.
No matter how much happy that person might be seen but there are other parts which the same person has to go through. And that is criticism from the unknown people. The other side of being famous with a romantic relationship is that audience can have suggestion about them.
When we are exposed to a larger audience, less than half are suggestions which are bothered in terms of appearance, attitude, relationship status and sometimes even in terms of their profession. We don’t have right to judge anyone, but no one can explain that certain percent of population to stop being racist or that is wrong.
It reflects across all the age groups and such kind of fame can turn discouraging. Humans want happiness and even if there is slight amount of sadness, the entire happiness can get ruined. Yes there are famous people, who can balance between heavy criticism and the positive side, but they are mentally and emotionally strong. And that is possible when we struggle to become famous.
You might have seen on the internet that unknown people get famous without doing anything. There is no purpose and the audience forcibly tries to make them famous because a video or a photo acts as laughing or hateful material. Such fame can be praiseworthy and if actions are wrong, then it will be taken to every single social media platform ultimately leading to rise in trolls.
So what can you say about when a very important part of our life, whom we love, want to stay together is exposed on such a platform. Nowadays humans who are sensitive about their personal information are feeling insecure to post anything on social media. This is because some people share for the purpose of making laughing material.
RELATIONSHIPS GROW BETTER WHEN YOU KEEP IT PRIVATE
I don’t know how many people agree to this. It is seen that the ones who work alone hiding from vision of others, are able to generate tremendous amount of positive result. You can take example of your work itself. Suppose if you try to work with your friends. The work which takes approximate three hours won’t be completed even after six hours.
This is because half of the time is passed chit chatting with each other. Whereas the same work done alone can be completed even in less than three hours. The amount of power that the work in silence has incredible because the concentration raises to the maximum. We humans love to work with others because we find it fun but we never get to know that we are wasting our time.
Similar is the case with relationship. When you let others get involved in it, you are not able to spend quality time with the significant other. And this In turn can lead to anxiety and create more amount of problems. And of course the environment we are living in will always have variable opinion depending upon their mentality.
The worst part is when the opinion doesn’t work, they have right to turn their backs. So if you want to set a relationship goal then make a note of this and mark it as very important. Keep it private! That is the only way to take off.
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