Have you ever been in a situation where you had been observed as weak, valueless, and stupid? It happens when people start taking each other for granted especially when they are unknown. You might have seen individuals who have won multiple times in a competition trying to act dominant and try to underestimate the power of the inexperienced people. And afterwards they get to know how much capable that person is when he or she performs beyond their expectations.
Actually we are those people who limit ourselves, our thoughts and most importantly the amount of possibilities. So the other person who faces such negative comments gets even stronger than ever and you might have seen that in that situation they also surprise themselves.
So it’s we who are allowing them to rise through our ugly thoughts. But why do we underestimate people so much? There might be some reason behind this, isn’t it? And one of the main reason you could find commonly among people is lack of humbleness. You never know who will win the competition.
It can be you, your colleague or some other competitor. But what must remain constant is being humble and appreciative to others. Even if you don’t like that person from heart but you need to also not make him or her your enemy.
If you appreciate others then automatically everyone will start appreciating you. I have done this and most of them have showed the same amount of respect. So if you are having that kind of attitude or ego about yourself then you need to keep it far behind from your boundaries.
There’s a saying that give respect take respect which is true in every case no matter it is human being, an animal or even plants. They all are alive and sometimes our actions, words could be toxic than what we might think.
IMMATURE PEOPLE UNDERESTIMATE THE WORLD
I am the richest person on the planet. I am the strongest person alive. Have you ever tried of adding a superlative degree to your ambitions? That’s why we only live in dreams rather than working on it. If you ask the richest person that was he thinking of becoming rich then you would get a negative answer.
They are absolutely not. This kind of thinking relates to supremacy and none of them can become true. This is because they are meaningless and suppose even if it happens but that position won’t last forever. Bill Gates who once was the richest person on the planet is now lagging far behind.
And the ones who were far behind from Bill Gates have surpassed him. You never know who might move ahead and replace you from that position. There is so much amount of uncertainty in life that a person who had failed multiple times in school might become the wealthiest person.
And the ones who have underestimated their capabilities might deeply regret about what they had said in their past. Whoever it might be life is uncertain you cannot conclude someone’s result before testing them through their external appearance.
And even if you think that it is beyond their capabilities don’t try to demotivate them. So we all are immature in some or other ways because we might only think of what is happening around us and not what is happening behind the scenes.
Take example of a movie. We might complain that the movie was not so good or it was no so entertaining but we never realize how much amount of hard work it takes to film just a particular scene. And that’s why those who underestimate others are called as immature.
DON’T HIDE YOUR FEELINGS FOR THE SAKE OF SAVING YOUR EGO
You might have experienced this situation a lot of times and we humans have this kind of tendency where we try to show that we ignore the good values of the other person. For example suppose you have allotted a task to a person and the person does it on time. Of course you will say thank you in return and also appreciate his or her efforts.
But some people will intentionally ignore their efforts and in turn they would criticize for small mistakes. They will try to find maximum mistakes as much as possible. And such people do exist because they think that they might lose respect while giving it to others. Simply it means that if they show some respect they might lose their own value.
And this attitude can make things more complex. This is also one of the reasons for breakups in relationship which we can happen with people who are very close to us. And when such people fall into a critical situation no one tries to save them because of their past experience.
That’s the reason you need to appreciate efforts someone has put into the work at that time itself. Because during the time of urgency we might need help from them. So you need to thank them of whatever they are doing for you. And that’s the way you can keep them close.
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