So many people show they are living their best life but deep down they carry guilt, hatred against God for not being faithful. If social media was created to influence people then trust me that we all are getting influenced by simply believing which is not true. How many times this has happened with you when everything is work all right but then a situation takes place which completely disappoints you.
And then that disappointment is pulled up on God. We all know how to blame others when we find ourselves in trouble but we don’t realize how much we have enjoyed our brighter days. In simple words we ignore the positive part of our life by focusing on negative part. You might had never wanted it to happen but still you forget and ultimately create a mess of yourself.
What we generally do is that we only keep our focus on negative things happening around. Just like your friend who lost his/her job, someone who has died, a news that has been on national headlines or even a controversy which is creating a lot of disturbance in the society.
We find them as beneficial and important to understand and we adopt that same attitude in the future. Isn’t it? And then we start questioning god that why such bad things happen only in my life. That’s where we have to change. If this attitude won’t change then you will feel being unworthy of living this life.
You won’t be able to enjoy or find meaning of your living. Maximum number of people never try to understand this and they put themselves in believing what they see. We humans are social animals and we only think and care about our relationships with others.
PERSON WHO IS GRATEFUL WILL EVEN BE HAPPY DURING BAD TIMES
Just like we all ignore the good things in life there are very few people on this planet who remain happy even during bad times. They also praise these bad times since they know that life is all about up’s and down’s. They never complain of where they are, where they are born and why good things aren’t taking place.
And such people do exist but are found rarely on this planet earth. Just like around 1 in among thousand people. Though this is not a real estimate but in simple terms they can never be found out so easily. What we need to learn from them is their capacity to accept situation which have created pain and sufferings.
They don’t complain because they increase their capacity of acceptance more than what an average person can. We normally get angry towards God once we fall in a miserable condition. But on the other side such people still remain grateful towards him. Many of us try to find out that how they are able to digest such pain easily keeping smile on face.
And then we get jealous of them because of their attitude. Remember that being happy is totally dependent on our thoughts. You can never remain happy if you try to chase for happiness. They are able to digest because they accept the reality. They accept the fact that not all of the things will act according to our way. So they accept such bad times with a smile on the face. And that smile is straight from their heart.
JUST OBSERVE AROUND AND THINK HOW GRATEFUL YOU ARE
Just look around yourself now and see someone who is handicap or someone who is not able to do things which normal humans can. But still they put their 100 percent of efforts into making things happen. The population of handicap might be less but can never be nil. There might be some reason behind it yet we never take the kind of inspiration they give us.
Suppose you get injure in a road accident and a fracture take place in both of your arms. You cannot move them at all and they are still. Of course you will consult a doctor and he/she might help you to recover. So you will not be able to do anything and there will be need of constant support from someone temporarily.
But what if this fracture remains permanent for the rest of your life. You won’t be able to do things what you really want to do. Similarly handicap people suffer through a permanent defect which reduces the amount of opportunities than what a normal humans have. Rising through difficulties can be inspiring but we never appreciate how much beautiful our life is.
So you need to take some time from your daily routine and just thank everyone all around who are there or not there with you. And then finally appreciate how grateful you are to God for blessing with this life. Always remember that this should involve your deep emotions because that is what makes it important and meaningful.
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