The world is changing its way to share thoughts. If you compare the older generation with the young ones then it seems like none of them is actually great. During the old times, the main hindrance was communication especially when people were over long distance. And now if you see the improvements in technology then just because of such comments mental health issues are on rise. Someone thinks about changing the world while the other one thinks of charging it with dominancy and cruelty.
Though we have different intentions but our emotions remain the same. Basically it is about how we manage these emotions and put them under control. When people are not able to manage their emotions, they make use of social media to release their anger.
So you might be thinking how this is even possible. If you are an active social media user on any platform then you will realise that the comment section is filled with mixed emotions. Someone feels empathy while the other person gets infuriated. This happens because we all have different point of view and totally different past experience. There can be some past events which might puke out their thoughts and feelings about the person.
There can be infinite number of reasons and that’s why certain people react in this manner. But what must remain constant is level of tolerance which is absolutely zero in the community we are living in. The internet has unlimited amount of information spread on uncountable number of domains. It’s a fact that not every person will be able to store it in the form of memory.
And even after having so much of information, we are still not able to stabilise in this wealthy resource. No matter how much knowledge a person seeks but when it comes to behaviour, people deny of accepting the mistake they have made. So if you can make out the difference between the older generation and the youngster, then you will observe that actually nothing has changed other than using the online medium as a source of freedom.
Nowadays comments can be seen as nasty, rude and ugly because most of them come straight from the frustration of people. But it doesn’t stop here as most of those comments are from bots which are floating around on every platform. These bots are created with a purpose of spreading hate and cheating the innocents. So it’s not always what you think because online medium is a place which can never be seen or visualise the way we can do in practical world.
A lot of people work hard day and night for the content they create on the internet. They always face vulgar, stupid and at the same time positive comments. Users who are inspired from that person or the ones who are able to align with their thoughts will never speak against it. These two category of audience will always be there wherever you go.
PEOPLE WILL CONNECT WITH YOUR WORK BUT DIFFERENCES MATTER
Actually the variation in our perspective can be the reason for our uniqueness and because of differences we all are able to make balance in the nature. Just take an example, suppose you are given a debate topic about, “should humans kill animals for consumption of meat.” Now let’s look at the debate. Someone will talk about the cruelty against animals and the amount of pain they have to go through in order to fulfil else’s stomach.
But on the other side the opposition will talk about the imbalance in the environment and increase in birth rate if total meat consumption is reduced to nil. These differences are never created by a single person and the entire society has contributed towards it. This not only gives understanding about the ideology of humans but also tells more about the person’s understanding level and knowledge.
We can never say that we are right as the situations are different. If everyone is denying then it could even be true and the majority can hold a valuable opinion depending on the experience of every person. So coming back to the topic if the majority of comments are on the same track, then in it can be said to hold some value.
If there is difference in the thoughts of the commenters then you need to decide the value. If it’s beyond your limit, leave and if it’s really improving you then you need to think about it.
PEOPLE COMMENT HATE IN ORDER TO COOL DOWN THEIR ANGER
That’s why you will see the posts of most of the celebrities, famous people filled with comments which can never be imagined. Those people remain so busy writing down their thoughts in the comment box. They spend their almost entire day doing this. No one can stop this happening and yes we have misused the freedom of expression in a cheap way.
What can you do other than ignoring it? Of course and that’s what the solution is when people try to put their views about the person. No one can stop them and social media and its related platform serves for this kind of interaction. At last it’s we who make this trend happen. People have found their way to cool down themselves. Sometimes they even do so because of the jealousy. And in order to demotivate and hurt the hard working individuals.
So as explained before that ignorance is the only way to deal with such people. One should never take criticism or even vulgar comments personally because it tells more about the mentality of the person who is doing so. Don’t react back as it will create your own involvement in the matter. At last there will always remain two types of people in the comment section. The ones who wants to help you in order to move forward in your work and the other category will always think about hurting you and your growth. It all depends on your thinking and perspective.
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