What will happen if your future is based on assumptions? What will happen if those assumptions go wrong? And absolutely more than eighty percent of assumptions go wrong. So assumptions are basically imaginations or thoughts without any proofs. And trust me, it can lead to the most destructing part of your life.
They can vary from highest point of success to the lowest point of failure, and definitely most of the people fail. It is because assumptions don’t consist of any kind of solid proof. They are purely based on imaginations and people judge on the basis of what they feel.
Actually suppositions are more related to feelings. We think based on what we feel. Suppose there might be certain kind of people, or relationships in your life, where your emotions could be intense. When we feel for someone our thinking process gradually gets lowered down, and those emotions dominate more.
No matter how much intelligent you might be, but there are certain processes happening in your body which forces you to follow that pattern. So when our emotions reach to that level we are constantly controlled by our mood swings. We can get hurt easily by a single word, or feel loved depending on our moods.
The tragedy of judgement are those constant mood swings, which never let us live a simpler life. So when we are feeling tired or ill, our negative emotions start arising. When a human processes these emotions with his intelligence, it leads to assumptions.
And I can guarantee you, that these assumptions will be toxic not only for your mentality but also for your future. It’s because these judgement are created during lower level thinking and lack of any proper parameters. There are people around the world who judge others based on their assumptions and there are people who use certain parameters.
Thinking is important part of judgement, but you need to think in the right manner, without differentiating based on feelings. Because these feelings are toxic, and when things go wrong, it controls the human mind leading to assumptions.
1. ASSUMPTIONS IN RELATIONSHIPS
Assumptions are lead through many ways and most importantly these are our feelings and personal emotions which are felt by us. These emotions arises because we get confused that what is actually happening around. The amount of hard work we engage in it makes us question that why do those things act in a certain manner.
The main point here is our hard work and those struggles we have poured in something or someone that we are aiming for. Suppose you fall in love with someone one day. And that person doesn’t know about it. So how will you connect to him or her? Most of you might message in order to get that reply. So basically the reply will be no or yes. He or she will accept you or reject you depending upon what the person feels about you.
So during the process, there will be as many assumptions because when we are looking the external profile of a person there are many factors that need to be considered. And you know what this is a common human tendency. Even in arranged marriages we definitely don’t fall in unwanted traps.
First of all we look at the beauty, then the profile and also those achievements. But it doesn’t stop here, we will start thinking about what and how that individual will react in the future and set those imaginations accordingly. But actually we don’t realize that even these too are assumptions. We in the present think about our future will turn up in this way or in that way after digging closely through their profile.
At the most we expect a lot when it comes to assumptions. We expect people to be kind, gentle, peaceful, supportive, honest and so many shits we start assuming that humans die by covering their life with this terrible shit of expectations. And while being in that coffin the situation becomes opposite, people pray because of those unfulfilled expectations. That is why humans are called to be toxic for their unwanted assumptions.
2. ASSUMPTIONS IN CAREERS
There are assumptions in relationships and after that our head turns towards our career and goals. There are so many assumptions we have always heard in relationships but have you ever thought about your career or those goals.
Almost each and every individual assumes that his or her goals will be met in such a manner. We don’t even leave our careers because those expectations are always revolving around our minds.
I will tell you about the most common idea we expect while dealing with our careers. Have you ever been at that point when those results turn out to be sour than those expectations. Yes, it always happens with most of the students who assume that their answer sheets will be corrected in their way.
Those figures actually never match at all because we conclude our results in advance. Those figures we think are actually assumptions which doesn’t have any solid proof. We never analyse the question paper or figure out what is going wrong.
3. ASSUMPTIONS WITHOUT APPLYING ANY PARAMETERS
We assume those figures randomly and then wait for those moments to happen. And when we tell our parents about the actual results then all of the drama takes place. Long hour lectures, arguments or even flying slippers. Sorry for that but yes we all are dealing with it in this manner. We assume that those marks or scores will turn out in our manner but at last it never happens at all.
Assumptions are brutal when there are no certain parameters. Suppose you need to give a score for a work that someone has submitted to you. Then you will make some points so that the work succeeds and relate with those points. And if it succeeds you will accept or reject it. Assumptions are said to be toxic because it doesn’t involve certain solid proof which are your parameters.
Even if you want to assume then please don’t randomly put any thoughts. Just like we study before exams. A theoretical analysis is very important because on that basis judgement can be easily played well or a specific category of work can be judged.
But at last remember we are humans. Humans make mistake and most of them are made in this part of assuming things. So before concluding this topic take time and work over these things. Stop making assumptions and work on parameters which will help you to judge better.
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