What do you do when you completely disagree to someone’s opinion? Do you fight back or just leave it there itself? It depends when the topic is related to religious sentiments, culture, racial discrimination, respect, Human rights more than half percent of the population will create conflicts against their opposition. This is because when it comes to culture which they are grown in, people hold certain feelings about the same.
It forms a memory and a strong bond. Just like you will fight for the person whom you love because you have preserved feelings for him/her. But this won’t matter when the person is unknown. The problem is with us. When we are in love with culture or are entitled with that name, we feel that it must be respected more than others. A person who thinks that his race, culture has faced a lot of struggles will always feel that it must be respected.
He won’t think what others have gone through or he will never ask that is there anyone who is going through similar kind of struggle. And in this manner we have become selfish not for our needs but for a specific category of the society. When we form a community where everyone shares their emotions, we feel connected and when someone tries to hurt their sentiments that community will raise voice.
And this has created conflicts and even wars around the world. The end results that their problem still remain unsolved. No one gets answer to their questions and the emotions remain suffocated within the boundary of expectations. Conflicts can be avoided and they can be resolved peacefully with time and patience but in the current time we all are in rush and that’s why such conflicts are becoming common in this world.
When we are enraged the mind only thinks about putting down that anger over someone and afterwards we feel sorry. But then again we stick to our thoughts and this leads to a formation of cycle. And trust me, humans can never ever get out from such turmoil since their emotions keep revolving in their past.
Conflicts can be avoided but because of our attachment to a thought we are not able to forget them even if the problem gets vanished away. It will still arise in the future.
YOU DON’T OWN RIGHT OVER ANYONE
A lot of people never ask this question to themselves that why we are trying to pick up unworthy fights. What’s the purpose behind it? Are we trying to prove something to them? It’s hilarious and in that situation they never understand what the point for proving them wrong is. First of all no one is right and wrong. We all have our own personal space and we are happy with it.
But when someone tries to oppose it, we are not able to control ourselves. That is what happening everywhere. This human race is running behind proving themselves but they don’t know about its use. Are they going to make money? Or are they going to marry someone? If there was some purpose behind, then it was indeed needed.
Conflicts are needed when someone is going on an absolute wrong path where there is only destruction written everywhere. But even in that case you can’t do anything if the person remains stubborn. And that is why the only way which remains is to mind your own business. Yes, there will be a case where we might have loved someone and we want those feelings back.
If such feeling triggers you, then you need to understand that you have fallen into attachments. As per the law a person can never own right over someone unless it is matter of blood relation. And that too is only limited. So one should keep in mind a human can never own another human.
They can only be hired which we see in daily jobs. You can control a person in terms of money but not with their emotions, thoughts and your expectations. They will do what they want and that is the real fact one should never forget.
CONFLICTS NEVER LEAD TO CONCLUSION
Apart from struggling through the negative emotions one also suffers through the final result. This is because he/she is left confused about what is the real answer to the question. This happens especially in heated debates when two people remain firm over their decisions. They are not able to relate what other is trying to say, and on top of that they remain stubborn of what they have kept on their mind. They only feel that what they have seen is right and in the future every situation will be related to it.
While the other person too thinks the same but in a different manner. Reports says that conflicts never get resolved with peace and at last both the parties end up being confused. If you want to get a conclusion then at first you need to understand the problem first which can never happen when our mind is already filled with negative thoughts about the other person.
YOU GET TEMPORARY SATISFACTION WHEN THEY LOSE
Suppose in some or other manner you win over the person. Your friends congratulate you and the other person feels discouraged about the same. He starts thinking wrong about you and your life. After that he finds opportunity in every way to make you struggle because he wants to seek peace. But you too get enraged and react back.
This conflicts only give temporary satisfaction. Even if the matter gets dissolved but it again appears because of the grudge people hold about each other. And this never settles at one place. Even if they lose but they might fight back for the same. And if it was something related to a different perspective, decision and faith then people don’t fall back. This is what happens when you get into conflicts over someone. You don’t achieve mental peace and there is no end towards the conclusion.
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