How many times you have felt that you deserve more respect than what you are getting right now? How many times you have felt that people should take care of your opinion because it matters? At least once you might have faced a situation in your life where you felt completely stressed about the treatment you are getting.
It can never happen that a human has lived his/her life with pure respect and there is no one in this world who hasn’t faced criticism at all. Wherever you are even in the loneliness there will be someone who will puke their thoughts about you. Don’t get me wrong but the major part we all are missing in our day to day life is practising gratitude.
Think about the previous day and ask yourself how many times you had appreciated someone who did your work on time. It can be anyone from your maid to your office assistant. Even a small word like Thank You can help someone to keep them going with their work.
A person who always want to work on the targets or someone who is working to make their lives better forget the people who have supported him/her during the journey. No we haven’t done anything wrong, but the ones who are constantly giving their equal amount of support to make our lives better need to at least be appreciated.
That can even be your “Thank You” because we humans get into panic mode when we see our work is constantly being ignored by others. There’s always some kind of fear on their mind. A lot of people suffer because of this reason as it creates a negative impact on their minds. Remember whoever is working under you they all are humans.
It doesn’t matter at which position they are working, you need to appreciate them always. Sometimes they might even make mistakes, so during that time you won’t be able to tolerate yourself as it can affect you in some way. Even during that time it’s very important to calm them down.
Just imagine in today’s life if a mistake takes place when you are working under someone who owns a business. They cut down the salaries to cover the losses, isn’t it? That’s how we are turning wild. We try to find one mistake which can help us to play the blame game.
Employees who remains absent for a day, their salaries are cut down. So there is no space of practising gratitude at all. We only want money and nothing else. The world would have been at the best place if we had replaced money in the form of gratitude. Imagine a world where you had to talk good about someone to gain a piece of bread.
People would have given more amount of value to each other than money. Since money can buy everything, we respect it. So it’s our duty to change this mentality and spread it to every part of the world wherever we are travelling to.
YOU FORM A CHAIN OF GRATITUDE ONCE YOU PASS IT TO SOMEONE
Humans commonly react according to the way they are treated. If they are treated with care and respect, they will give it to others too. And that’s why you will see so many toxic people around who want to hurt others. It is becoming so common and slowly we all are forming a chain of hurt.
Once a person talks bad about someone that someone will also react in the same manner to other humans. So we all are contributing towards an immature society and values which doesn’t match with humanity. If you take example of social media, you will see so many negative comments on a post of someone who is already famous.
Especially this takes place when that celebrity has hurt the sentiments of common people. We remain so much busy doing unworthy things that we hardly give time towards creating positive impact in someone’s life. We don’t even try because what we feel is taking the revenge of a fight we had lost in the past with our enemies.
And that’s why we have to change these small habits because at last they are creating a toxic society. Most importantly we need to stop using abusive language on social media. Social media is used for creativity and sharing unique ideas with others.
Remember you are neither the person who is going to judge someone’s work nor an expert working in that field. You have to mind your business keeping in mind that you are not hurting anyone’s feelings. We won’t be able to convert every person into a kind soul but at least we can reduce some amount of toxicity which we all are suffering through.
Such changes won’t happen suddenly. Firstly we will have to take control of our thoughts and actions which can hurt ourselves as well as others. We are not feeding on humans like wild animals do. We know how to cook food, we know how to satisfy our needs and in this process we need to also keep in mind that we are not creating trouble for anyone else. Just like the way we take care of our needs in similar manner we need to protect our thoughts too.
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