Humans cannot be overestimated or underestimated depending on their looks or external beauty. There is always some value lacking in a person. Like if a narcissist is blessed with great body and facial then there might be good behavior lacking in them. Similarly if a person has dull physical personality but at the same time he/she might have the kindest behavior.
It’s easily understandable because we cannot have a clear estimation of what’s lacking when we meet someone for the first time. Many of their characteristics remain unknown. This theory is not completely legitimate because there are people who have a neutral personality.
In simple terms they have balance in every aspect of their lives. Yes, such people are bliss because they can adapt to any kind of changing environment just by slightly increasing one of the parameters. Yet the population of these kind of humans is too little. In the entire human population you will find unorganized people in abundance.
Unorganized meaning not having a formal balance between any of the aspects of life. It’s similar to stock market that there’s always some kind of uncertainty. The behaviour of unorganized people is completely unknown. Still they feel that they should get the utmost respect in the society and a dominant place so that they can rule everybody.
In reality they don’t have any special talents or good behaviour but due to their looks people fall over them. In physical terms, they have the best body. Again this is not completely valid concept to everyone but this is most important to understand since we will find such people trying to knock our doors to enter our timeline.
When you will open the door, you will find him/her impressive and unbelievable. You will completely become crazy of him/her just because you are impressed by their appearance. Notably such people only have one intention and that is to become famous and become a monarch of your life. Since he/she has driven you crazy, you will find this as an amazing opportunity to settle with a stable life.
And from here we let our lives to rule by someone who was unknown to having a complete control of our emotions. The process that takes place for the first time remains longer than expected. Like turns into love and we get completely attached to the human. It means if he/she abuses you it will feel hurt but then again you will try to meet them.
This is an emotional trap which can create an unnecessary trouble into your life. If you are reading this then remember there’s very much high probability that you will meet such kind of people. Narcissism is nothing but a mental disorder where a person tries to intentionally manipulate an innocents mind in order to feel satisfied and gain superiority over them. You might feel it’s wrong but that’s how these people are shaped with because of their negative values.
A HUMAN WHO ALWAYS MAKES YOU UNCOMFORTABLE DOESN’T WANT TO SEE YOU HAPPY
This is a bitter truth about narcissist because your discomfort becomes a form of happiness for them. And when you are happy they try to plan out in order to kill your happiness forever. For them a relationship is like a small doll which they can play and thrash in any way so that they can feel peace. Why would anyone try to love such kind of people?
Though it might be a question you would always ask but those who are suffering from such violent partners put the overall pain on themselves. They can’t exit their relationships just because they have loved someone so much that they can’t see other opportunities at all. For those people who have been really going through such relationship need to patiently leave it without acknowledging them.
This is because if you tell them then again they will pull you back by saying some warm words and start deceiving you. Don’t contact them at all as this will make you feel guilty. Remember that such people will make you struggle till your last breathe. You will have regrets if you don’t leave such relationship because during the final phase of your life you will remember this mistake.
You will complain of not being able to enjoy and live the best life you always wanted. Most importantly at first you shouldn’t let your happiness be dependent on anyone. No matter how kind the person is you shouldn’t love someone so much that you can’t leave when you really want to live.
The second most important point to remember is that never get impressed over anyone’s looks or anyone whom you feel as dashing and cool. If you want to have a deserving place in someone’s heart choose someone who wants you to be happy. A person who wants his/her relationship to be happy will try to adjust as much as possible. Try to create relationship with such people because more than an unworthy love what matters is peace and happiness of your mind.
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