Who doesn’t love assets and a lot of us are wandering that when we will be able to create our own. Nowadays a lot of youngsters consider the assets owned by their parents as their own. This is the idle mindset of people because they don’t prefer to work their asses off making money for themselves and reaping benefits in the old age.
Fun is what we are looking for and we know that it can be made from our parent’s money. While going for outings, dates, and parties we always ask our parents for money. In some or other way they help us on every need and desire which is required to be fulfilled. Parents take responsibility of our happiness and then we become dependent over them.
This is what spoils so many youngsters, and many of them purely get attached to their parent’s personal property and assets. Parents put a lot of their efforts in building these assets and properties from scratch. Many youngsters never recognize their parent’s efforts and instead blame them for not fulfilling their wishes.
If you are one of them who have constantly ignored your mother’s or father’s efforts then you will regret it in future. In coming years it will become difficult for you to adjust in an environment where there’s harsh and rude people around. If you don’t feel grateful for having others then no one outside is going to treat you with respect.
PARENTS SHOULD NOT PAMPER THEIR CHILDREN
It’s natural that parents want their child to be the topmost priority. They never give up when it comes to desires of their child. This mentality is what kills the entire society when the same child creates mess around. Many parents think that the more they pamper their child, the better it will be for their future.
And then it happens to be completely opposite when they turn old. Parents keep a lot of expectations from their children but they never try to reveal them. They think that their child will understand and grow naturally which is not at all possible.
Nature cannot give permanent values to your child. It’s dependent on how he or she practices those value. Due to over pampering parents never let their children to practise those good values. And because of their attitude their children become spoiled brats.
So it’s responsibility of parents to not pamper their children once they grow up. A child can become independent only if parents give their children freedom to select their life. That’s where they will become mature by themselves. They don’t have to judge or indulge too much in their personal life.
YOU WILL DEVALUE YOURSELF CHASING OVER OTHER’S SUCCESS
It’s very important to understand that you will never be able to increase your own value if you are chasing others. Simply you will devalue yourself since you are not working over yourself. Let’s take an example.
Suppose you have been given a role in a movie. And it becomes an instant hit within days of release. You garn attention of people and build your own fan base. Now you are given a second role in a movie. So now you try to act more like bigger celebrities such as Tom Cruise and Arnold Schwarzenegger.
On day of release people flock the theatres to watch you. But as days pass by, you start receiving negative feedback from your audience. They criticise your acting skills for copying like these celebrities. This is what happens most of the time when brands try to copy each other.
The original won’t lose it identity while the newer ones will never be able to compete. People always want something unique from you. No matter how much marketing or promotions you carry out, no one is going to like you once you lose your original identity.
Similarly your asset is going to carry your unique identity. Like for example I have seen people who claim their father’s house as their own property. Though it is not wrong but other close members are going to remember about your father’s hard work when seeing that house.
This is what makes the difference. Even the documents will tell the truth as the original owner was your father. People get to know the truth very quickly and once they perceive in that way then there’s no other way to change it. The true respect you will carry is when you will be able to build your own asset from the scratch.
We think that no one is looking into our private life. But there’s always someone who is observing your every move and you won’t even know. So you have to be truthful to yourself. You have to be determined and work hard enough to build those assets by yourself. And that’s where you will be treated with respect.
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