I don’t read much books from self-help category but just by reading first few pages of a book, I can tell you what’s going to be in further part. A lot of people call themselves as fan of self-help books but in reality they just get impressed by temporary positive ideas which are then translated into good vibes. I am not going to tell you what is healthy for you but you need to ask these two questions to yourself?
That are you reading to temporarily release your stress or are you reading to permanently embed these concepts in your daily routine? There are these two types of people. The first one are those who try to kill their depression, frustration through author’s ideas and then again step back to where they were.
The second one are those who implement these important concepts into their life and regularly practice it for future improvements. Only 2 percent of these people actually turn these ideas into useful resource while rest keep on reading which has no end at all.
Trust me that reading a self-help book has become an addiction for many. It’s like consuming weed, drugs to put your negative emotions under control. Though it doesn’t affect you physically like weed and drugs but it can further put your mental health at risk.
In simplest language you will get addicted to these books so that you can kill your loneliness and other issues. You won’t be able to move with productive mindset like rest of the people. If you land in this type then you have to change this mindset. If you don’t then no matter what you read it will only waste your time.
KILL THIS ADDICTION BY FOCUSING ONLY ON ONE IDEA AT A TIME
These 2 percent of self-help readers maximise their learning potential not just by reading. They practice what they read no matter even if they read one or two pages of the book. What matters a lot is how you benefit yourself from the knowledge.
You will automatically kill this addiction by focusing only on handful of these books. These books have a lot of exposure towards good habits and hidden secrets of life. You don’t have to read all of those books at a time. Remember that even one good idea from a good book can change some part of your life completely in a positive way.
What’s worth noting is that almost all of the books have similar concepts but it depends on the author and the way he/she explains it to the reader. There are authors who have great understanding about life, they love to share their success stories with people but majority of them can’t explain it in a better way.
More than being friendly with their readers and building a great relationship they try to be general and informative with their readers. They have abundance of knowledge but they cannot explain it with some good amount of humor. And that’s why you will see that some of the self-help books are pretty informative but can quickly create boredom.
I will suggest you that only read what you love. Because even if you try to act positive while not having any kind of self-motivation and inspiration then it will only go in vain. You need to enjoy what you read and it is pretty very much important than reading nothing. So what you have to understand is to maintain focus on what you are loving and practice it regularly.
THE POWER OF EXPOSURE
You might be thinking what shit is this. Don’t worry it is the main title of my book. A lot of people don’t understand the power of learning. The Power of Exposure is not just a book but a powerful resource specially curated with ideas which can help you to create some kind of stability in life.
Though it doesn’t go that deep but it is a must read for every age group. No matter how old are we but still we make mistakes. If you are young and messed up between your career and relationship then it is a must read for you.
So what can I learn from this book? I don’t want to reveal it right now but inshort I can tell you that it is an enjoyable read. There are lot of misbeliefs we are suffering through in this modern developed world.
And there are people who are negatively influenced by the so called influencers on social media platforms and on the internet. This book will make you realize the truth about how emotionally we are controlled in this world and how to tackle it by keeping in mind about the reality.
It bursts the myths about your imaginary world and makes you understand that why you need to accept the reality. The Power of Exposure is must read for people who are not able to keep balance between their career and relationship. It’s a must read for confused individuals. You can find below the links of my books
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