More than ever men are known for their super extraordinary powers to dominate and force women. But that doesn’t make men unique since a lot of them are adapting this value. Freedom has been a problem for women and it is on the rise. We can’t complain and we shouldn’t because this is a problem which arose several generations in the past. It can be through the values of people in the ancient times.
It can be through those rulers and supreme leaders who thought themselves as great and powerful. And we all know that genes are hereditary. We all are unique but these genes pass certain values to the future generation. It’s not only about physical changes, but there are also some internal changes we are going through. It’s our values.
Some of the values might be same and some of them might be different. And this is where we see ourselves in the present. The mentality of the males and females are different which is the main cause for the development of unhealthy thoughts. What males think as right can be wrong as per the female’s perspective and vice versa.
Though their perspective might be different, their physical appearance might be different, but we all are from the same community. Humanity is dead as per the current situation but not that much we think. There are also some good people who care for others and want to maintain some sort of peace. We love solutions, isn’t it? There are several solutions to a problem but what transforms into a value can never be changed even after multiple treatments, medications and therapies.
Just take example of a frustrated employee who has fixed his summer vacation plans on a particular date. He packs his bag and gets ready with his family for his vacation after a long year of wait. But just a day before travel a problem pops out. His boss cancels his long vacations because of some emergency. How many of you can actually relate to this situation? It’s immeasurable but that doesn’t mean he will give up on his vacation plan.
Remember that traveling is also a value that very few people enjoy. Some people like to sleep crazy while some people love to enjoy and have fun with friends or family. But that value can never be changed unless a person tries hard himself to make it possible. And rarely very few of them are able to do it. A person who can do anything for the other significant one will make that impossible into possible.
And that’s where true relationships lies. A relationship has a lot of work to do with understanding the purpose behind its existence. There is a reason for existence of a relationship. When we think about friendships, they exists because we feel comfortable to share our thoughts and our imaginations. While a person might not be comfortable with friends because he might be an introvert.
And that is why before even thinking of building a relationship we need to understand ourselves better. And most importantly we have to define its existence. That can be a friendships or family relationship we all are here connected with some purpose.
RELATIONSHIP IS A CONNECTION AND NOT AN ENTITLEMENT
Have you ever tried to force yourself in order to do something? We can relate this with a very common example of our parents, especially moms. The way they take and fulfil their responsibilities is immensely appreciable. But that doesn’t seem to happen when we are forced to do something.
We are forced to study, or go for a job to earn handsome amount of money, and sometimes it can even be matter of food to eat when our stomachs are already full. So don’t you think that it is a stressful situation? It doesn’t happen always. Even though it might happen sometimes, but still the bond of parents and their child is always strong.
Which is not same for other kind of relationships. We might be comfortable with our parents, but not with someone who is unknown. Like a person who has intense feelings of hatred and anger. No one will like to be with a person who acts as an enemy and also seems to be dangerous for our life. Just take example of a relationship where you have to stay together forever with an unknown person.
Though it might be uncomfortable at first, but that doesn’t mean the relationship will last forever. Some people feel comfortable at first glance and afterwards they don’t even feel comfortable of standing close. Like what we see with the girlfriend and boyfriend kind of relationship which only lasts for days. There might be several reasons behind this. And one of them is that there is no sort of emotional and mental connection.
The idea is to connect and if the connection is not possible then there is no way to deal with the relationship. For this both of the individuals should need to understand each other. There are some kind of relationships which might not seem to work as per the observation of people, but deep down their roots are entwine into each other. They keep those relationships private and work on the upcoming situations which they have to deal with.
On another hand there are relationships which are popular on social media platforms. They are so famous that everyone gets to know about them. The future marriage and date everything gets fixed and then afterwards we see them with each other for the last time. That’s the reality and for some it becomes a tragedy for their entire life. The external people, media, and unknown people make the connection complex just because of expectations.
FORCE RELATIONSHIPS BECOME A SIGN OF CRIME
This is not what I am thinking but it’s just a reality check that what we think as the most compatible relationship turns out to be a complete mess. What’s happening around the world is inevitable. We all know that so many women everyday are forced by men to fall in a relationship again in order to complete the game. That silly game forms a trap for feelings because of the past mistake they made falling for each other.
Men cross their limits when they are connected to the other half emotionally but not physically. And that is why a lot of problems take place in such kind of relationship. There is so much of intense hunger for love that breaking up apart becomes impossible. And this gives rise to wrong doings also known as bad karmas. What we see people doing nowadays like forcefully trying to marry that person or getting into a physical relationship. Ultimately this actions are noted as the form of crime.
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