That slow and steady feelings you start creating for someone you like. It feels amazing and at the same time you can sense that person that he/she is really close to you. It’s one of the wonderful feelings because it fulfils our mental, physical as well as emotional desires. It feels like creating a post for social media.
Those sensitive touches and yes the warmth of the body is so good for a temporary period of time but you might start feeling cold if you let yourself dependent on that relationship for a long period of time. Okay, if you are a young adult that might sound to you like, “what the shit are you talking about?” “I am enjoying my relationship, please let me do it.”
Yeah, of course you can proceed to it, but then don’t regret for falling over wrong person. There’s this point people ignore when they are too young. We at every point of life go through several changes. They are not only occurring externally but there are also some changes that are taking place internally. These changes basically cannot be identified and during the teenage to Young Adult we are more kind of immature.
Basically if we don’t take care of ourselves within this range then it will create a problem. Not a problem but a real HAVOC. People don’t understand this phase of life and do things that create a mental and physical disturbance. And at this stage due to hormonal changes happening within our bodies, we don’t have any control over it.
These young teens only think about fulfilling their desires, pleasures and afterwards end up feeling miserable. This is the tragedy of every new couple out there. They think that it’s best to create a relationship but they don’t realize that there is beyond this physical intimacy and love. That is why parents always say to learn first because they are experienced humans.
THE SOCIAL MEDIA BLUES
I shouldn’t laugh at this shit but people do this without even thinking about their future. I basically remember my friends who always used to post their photos with their girlfriends and boyfriends, even their relationships were revealed on social media, but that didn’t even last for few months. After that they all wrote single on their relationship status. It’s a matter of laughing and seriously they make fun of themselves.
I mean why people do such crap to make fun of themselves. They try to improve their status and their value but then they end up being a fool. First of all, one shouldn’t discuss their privacy on the social media platform. This is the major mistake people do and mainly the newbies who think that those relationships will last forever. Privacy and maintaining that privacy is of utmost importance because when you post something online, it spreads to your followers and friends.
Social media influencers and the ones who make their presence on various online platforms become prey to this kind of situation. Basically they struggle because they rush over to find a partner in the “name” of relationship. They do it in order to entitle themselves that they are not dying single. But that relationship doesn’t even last for days. As we all know there are trolls happening out there and it’s becoming an issue.
But they never think and just do it for the purpose of fulfilment thinking it’s a success. It not only ends here, but even the celebrities and famous people are suffering through low mental health. “Mental health” as we all know is becoming a very trendy topic. If you observe those old days and the present period then you will see the difference in the effect internet has created on us.
Whatever you post online becomes a proof and you can’t regret it afterwards. We do things what others are doing. As we all know that our colleagues, friends are posting their relationships online. We start getting those similar urges and in the name of jealousy we dive deep in the pool of toxic emotions.
Yes, online trolling is taking place at a very large rate is because of our attitude. Those famous celebrities and social media influencers try to expose themselves as much as possible. Basically in the name of fame we do this. We never take time and think about what we are doing. Oh those relationship goals and blah. We just make our life so much shit.
Privacy is our security and the less you expose yourself the better will be for your mental health. It’s a straight forward formula because the ones who try to engage with their audience suffer the most. They suffer through trolls and if you have a large amount of following then you will be crushed on that medium or platform by your audience.
We need to make sure that to maintain some privacy in life because the online media is the most toxic media thus people gain freedom to comment. Since they are able to list down their thoughts they will spill off their shitty thoughts. It’s better to be far away and to only post what you think it’s important. It can be you marketing plan, your idea or any kind of work. People take opportunity to do those things that can hurt you easily. And famous people suffer through this disease a lot. When it comes to relationships then it’s better to have a privacy rather than trying to recover from that future trauma.
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