We are always so much busy with our daily jobs that we hardly take time to enjoy our hobbies. This is not only applicable to job seekers but also for students, housekeepers and every human being who want to travel. Because of their jobs they can’t travel and therefore they try to ignore it as much as possible.
We try to force ourselves to work in order to earn money and in the fear of losing job we don’t try to escape from our comfort zones. Yes, these jobs make us lie in our comfort zones since we get addicted to the cycle. Work for them and get money in return is the only cycle revolving in every individual’s life.
I have seen people making travel plans after retirements with their family. It’s so easy to imagine but very tough to conquer at that age where our bodies might not give the same amount of output which is giving right now. We might fall completely weak and drained of constant health problems.
Psychological problems are on rise and as days are passing by we have been surrounded by these problems at every move. Like when seniors try to put extra workload on their juniors. Such examples are almost everywhere and these issues are very much common in everyone’s lives.
Even when we go to someone’s wedding or party we get stressed up by our colleagues and friends of what to wear in the function. We try to overlook these small problems and carry doubts about people and their mentality towards us. This gives rise to social pressure among most mature adults. This social pressure and tension can only be controlled by the surrounding we will be living and keeping with.
YOU HAVE TO TAKE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH SERIOUSLY BEFORE RESPONSIBILITIES
Many times we see our parents working hard to feed us and help us grow from a young child to a young adult. We know how many responsibilities they have taken over themselves to feed the entire family along with us. And similarly in order to give them back of what they deserve we work hard to achieve our dreams.
It’s every individual’s dream to grow and become the best in their respective field but not all can compete for the same. Someone might be having a completely different skillset than you. And also every person doesn’t have same limits and desires. Someone might be wanting to achieve the highest rank and the other might want to just take part in the competition.
We will meet different types of people and having more variables than our imagination. You might have seen people enjoying their lives like anything and not caring about their responsibilities at all. You might have even seen people who take care about their responsibilities but don’t make time for themselves of what we have discussed above.
In order to enjoy life, you need to be neutral. You have to take care of your responsibilities and also make some time to explore different places.
LIFE IS UNCERTAIN AND NO ONE KNOWS THE FUTURE
Predicting life is like playing a lottery where the outcome is unknown and purely your luck plays the role. This seems to be obvious while playing a lottery but no one bothers to understand that the same concept applies to our future too. No one knows the outcome of the future.
Yes, you will be working hard enough to save every penny to enjoy after retirement. But what if an incident takes place and make you completely disabled. Will you tell your inner-self that I am sorry but we will surely travel and enjoy in the next birth? This is very important point to understand that no one is going to help you to explore the world.
Though there are few lucky disabled humans who get to explore the world but still no one knows what health problems we will be suffering in the future. Humans who try to plan and expect their future to turn as per their way should know that this is a very long term game.
Money, job is a requirement that fulfils only our financial needs. Having a break, travelling to different places is in our hands. We all know that it is difficult to convince our boss or seniors to get a holiday but remember it will be worth it for the peace of your mind. Accept these responsibilities but don’t take any of them personally which can deteriorate your physical and mental wellbeing.
It’s we who need to understand our body. It’s we who need to take care of ourselves and our desires. Don’t wait for anyone to help you get out of this hectic time schedule. You have to take that holiday by yourself. You have to plan out your travel by yourself. Don’t wait till retirement because we don’t own this time. Think this life as a loan and enjoy it to the fullest.
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